The whispers.

The rumouring stories.

The undeniable facts.

The news titles: another takes his life.

It’s all a shock at first; the occurrence of death is not an experience we encounter every day. Nor is it something we want to face. A few weeks later? How do you feel about that person who’s suddenly missing from the hallways of your school? Has the school community effortlessly forgotten about it?

It is a grim subject, but it is still one we need to confront. No, “cyber bullying” is not a term that others make up for misbehaviour. No, they didn’t think it could cause any damage. No, it’s not something you would find in a fictional novel where the main character is struggling through adolescence.

It is reality.

Upon reading Lily’s article on self-harm, the undeniable truth is that insecurity is something we feel, and there are those who are struggling because of it. Those who are closer to our lives than we would ever imagine; not just some random person walking down the halls at school. A few months ago, Robb Nash was invited to my high school to host a school-wide assembly to share his story.

Robb Nash is a survivor of a devastating car accident, where he was on the brink of death, mentally and physically. How does one cope with such excruciating, unendurable pain?

Inspired by events that followed, Robb found his way out of depression. Today he performs songs and share his experiences with others, hoping to create world changers.

What I loved about the performance of his band is that he doesn’t glorify his recovery. He tells the blatant truth as it is. His music reflect the struggles that many are going through – and through his music, he really inspires others. His easygoing personality makes his story personal and approachable. He creates a sense of hope for those in the dark abyss. He motivates others to be compassionate.

Suicide notes are not something we, as a society, should shy away from. We should be the ones who encourage others to abandon them. What can you do as a high school student? Why, exactly this: organize events and invite groups like Robb Nash’s to your school. Promote school spirit. Make everyone feel like they belong. It seems simple – and maybe like a futile attempt to save someone’s life – but I can guarantee that you will make an impact that you’ll never regret.

Last but not least,

remember this:

It is up to you to change the news titles!

Be sure to visit Robb Nash’s official website for more information.