Youth Are Awesome, commonly referred to as YAA, is a blog written by youth for youth.
YAA provides the youth of Calgary a place to amplify their voices and perspectives on what is happening around them.
Youth Are Awesome is a program of Youth Central.
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We’ve all seen one, talked to one, and perhaps fallen for one, but in the end once a jerk always a jerk, right? As a member of the female gender, I find that we always tend to fall for the “bad boy” or at least the vast majority of teenage girls. A lot of the time those bad boys tend to be jerks, however not always. And a lot of the time when a guy is a jerk, girls tend to move away, afraid of getting hurt.
After encountering multiple classic jerks myself, I finally hit a breaking point and came to a realization. A realization of which taught me that regardless of how attractive and charming someone may be, if there attitude is negative the entire relationship will be negative. Someone who is egotistical and ignorant with a pessimistic vibe can only do damage in ones life. Someone who only thinks about himself, will never be able to respect relationships, let alone maintain one.
After coming to this somewhat life-changing realization, I thought about all the other girls in this world that have to put up with guys like this in all areas of their lives whether its at work, at school, at home, and everywhere else. So I went around asking girls about their opinions on The Classic Jerk.
I decided to ask a few of our female bloggers on YAA for their opinions and this is what I got:
“The jerk is the one who calls himself a ‘nice guy’ and complains of being ‘friendzoned’ since apparently friendship isn’t that great of a consolation prize if you’re not getting ‘laid'” ~Jessica Mai
“The jerk is the eternal complainer, who’s never at fault and talks incessantly about hypocrites. His whole life is a conspiracy and he wonders why his world sucks so much. Your problems can never be as bad as his. You just don’t understand.” ~Carol Zhang
“The classic jerk is he who judges others mercilessly but never takes a moment to reflect on his own faults.” ~Ailin Li
And here are some perspectives from other teenage girls:
“Urg I don’t know, it’s stupid. I mean some people can’t help it, it’s just their personality and I guess that doesn’t mean that they can’t be in relationships but they should know that they make it hard for the other person to want to be with them.” ~Roshni Sohail
“I feel like they are necessary, because they make us love the people who aren’t jerks and they make us stronger and they make relationships interesting. They make us value the thought that people aren’t perfect. I believe they are true, they speak their mind, ya they are difficult but what isn’t in life? it makes life interesting to be with them and they are jerks because of experiences and insecurities but around the right person they are like anybody else.” ~Simran Parmar
“They are needed in life to balance things out.” ~Anonymous
“Well usually they don’t start off being a jerk but as soon as they hear something they don’t like or they find your weakness, they use it against you. It sucks cause they led you to believe they were decent but then they change in a split second. I would be less angry if they had been mean from the beginning cause at least I would’ve known what was coming you know? And its not only guys who act that way” ~Harmehar Dhillion
“I feel they need a reality check. I mean they could act nicer and have a better prespective on everything but instead they are jerks so i guess if they wanna be that way they can.” ~Sarah Walter
After taking to all these lovely ladies I realized that perhaps guys have a differing perspective or the same as us females on “The Classic Jerk” so I asked around and got a response from one of our YAA Bloggers, Dean.
“Jerks are distraught, lonely, but hopeful knights in armor who’ve had their armor tested, and those tests finally got to them. All the damage done, all the words, it created an excuse of a person that was supposed to be something good. Girl or guy, a jerk is a person that’s so far into their selfish brain that you can’t save them, when they started like how we all started: happy kids with nothing to lose” ~Dean
After all of these perspectives, one thing is for sure, The Classic Jerk, has the ability to break or make someone, and just might be broken on the inside as well.
It’s clear to see that our new Blogger of the Month (BOTM) Carol Zhang has a passion for showcasing other people’s talents. From her interview with up and coming musician Vincent Christianson, her article on local artist Natálie Slabá and various posts for the Youth of YYC series, Carol has done an amazing job of showcasing the talents and accomplishments other youth in Calgary have and I think it’s about time someone recognized hers. I had the opportunity to interview our lovely BOTM to get to know her a bit better. Without further ado, I present to you Carol Zhang.
Q: Why did you want to start writing for Youth Are Awesome?
A: I wanted to write for YAA because expressing myself through writing is the best way I know how. The written word is something I’ve always felt a deep connection to and I wanted to share my words with the public. But at the same time, Calgary is a city that I’ve grown to love (and really, I can’t imagine living in any other city I’ve visited), and I wanted to share my thoughts with the fantastic youth of Calgary. YAA seemed to be a perfect fit for me.
Q: What inspires you?
A: My main inspiration is music. I listen to everything from classical to pop to country to math rock. I love the storytelling aspect of music and its universality throughout cultures. I feel a connection to harmonies and lyrics that I don’t with anything else, and I can spend hours sitting on the couch listening to a song on repeat. Honestly though, a lot of everyday things like overheard snippets of conversations and unexpected smells inspire me more than anything else I can put a finger down on.
Q: How would you describe yourself?
A: I’m really weird and I kind of have a split personality. Most days I’m usually just the quiet person sitting like a creepy plant in a corner of the room, but whenever I’m alone with my friends and/or if I’ve had too much sugar/caffeine/homework I turn into this loud, hyperaffectionate unicorn.
Q: How do you hope to inspire people through the Youth of YYC series?
A: Youth of YYC focuses a lot on the stories of normal, everyday youth in Calgary. I think my biggest goal for the Youth of YYC movement is to show that regardless of the things they’re involved in and the things they’ve achieved, be it a lot or very little, each youth of YYC has their own story to tell. I want them to know that they shouldn’t force themselves into trying to fit themselves into the box that society has defined as ‘successful’, and that they’ll appreciate themselves for who they are.
Q: Which one of your blog posts are you most proud of?
A: “Five Musicians for the Adventurous Palate” is definitely my favourite. I spent a ton of time rifling through my music library to find the songs I wanted to share, and it turned out to be a really well-balanced collection that I was really proud of. The Bearded Gypsy Band, one of the artists I featured, retweeted it. I spent a good ten straight minutes spinning around in my chair and squealing.
I am an addict. I am addicted to Michael Bublé; furthermore, I am addicted to his Christmas album. In addition, I am also irrevocably hooked on Louis Armstrong’s, “What a wonderful world,” and Ramsey Lewis’, “Here comes Santa Clause.” To me, this is how I reign in the holidays and the winter season. There is no better way to signal the true spirit of winter than to listen to a soundtrack full of old jazzy Christmas tunes. This is eerily what gives me that warm fuzzy feeling inside, as I ponder about the generations that have been entertained by the same songs.
To celebrate this winter season, here are some of my favourites:
“Baby it’s cold outside”- Idina Menzel and Michael Bublé
“Christmas in New Orleans”- Louis Armstrong
“Jingle Bells”- Duke Ellington and His Orchestra
“Have yourself a Merry Little Christmas”- Ella Fitzgerald
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9L5mPfpeXxk
Get cozy with these tunes and enjoy the rest of this winter season. From YAA to all of you, we wish you a Happy Winter.
It’s that time of year again. That’s right, we’re nearly halfway through the luxurious mid-October to late-December season where pumpkin pie reigns as the star of seasonal desserts. It was with this festive tart that the pumpkin-spice hysteria all began, and having a delicious, go-to recipe is essential for anyone who partakes in Thanksgiving and Christmas celebrations. With that, I present to you my delectable twist on a family recipe originally taken from the 1944 Purity Flour Cookbook. I promise it will not disappoint.
Ingredients
2 eggs
1/2 c. liquid honey
1/2 tsp cinnamon
1/2 tsp salt
3/4 tsp nutmeg
1/2 tsp ginger
1/2 tsp pumpkin pie spice
1 1/2 c. prepared pumpkin/canned pumpkin puree
3/4 c. hot milk
1 tbsp butter
1 pie crust
Method
Preheat oven to 450 degrees Fahrenheit.
Using a hand mixer, beat eggs only until whites and yolks are well blended. Gradually beat in honey and add spices and salt.
Spoon butter into the hot milk and stir until fully melted.
Using a spatula, gently stir in the pumpkin and add the milk/butter mixture, continuing to stir until well blended.
Pour into a pie plate lined with the crust, and place a pie crust shield to prevent edges from burning. If you don’t have one of these, you can do what I did and cut out a donut-shaped piece of parchment paper and place that on top of your pie while it bakes.
Place in the oven and bake in at 450 degrees for 10 minutes. Then, reduce the temperature to 350 degrees and bake for 20-25 minutes or until filling is firm. ***Do not removing the pie from the oven during the temperature change! You shouldn’t disrupt it at all during this stage or you may end up with cracks down the middle of the filling.
Cool and serve with whipped cream.
That’s it! This recipe really is easy as… pie. Not only that, but it’s a healthier alternative to the traditional pumpkin pie recipes heavy in refined sugars (most call for a whole can of sweetened condensed milk!). If you try this recipe out, be sure to let me know what you think by leaving a comment below.
I have a confession to make… It isn’t easy for me to say this, but I’ll just come out with it. I am obsessed with watching Good Mythical Morning. Every morning, I wake up and immediately load YouTube on my iPad to watch videos while I’m getting ready. Rhett and Link have distinct personalities, but a similar sense of humour (for which I am grateful). The two are childhood friends and have been able to stay friends due to the business they have started together. It is adorable to watch them take jabs at each other and make fools of themselves for the entertainment of millions of people.
To gain a bit of perspective into what can be found on GMM, I guess you could draw a comparison to Ellen. The show comes out every weekday morning, although I’m not sure at what time. (But, I can almost guarantee that if you live inside Canada or the United States, you will be able to catch it before 8 a.m.). This means that you can now look forward to your Mondays not being boring! Certain days of the week call for special segments, such as mail on Thursdays, but the material is never predictable. Rhett and Link delve into some of the strangest and most outlandish topics possible, which is what really got me to stick with their channel.
Aside from these generic ramblings there really is no good way to be able to describe the eccentric nature of Good Mythical Morning, so I’ll just let you experience it for yourselves.
{There are several series which the audience enjoys.}
{A few episodes of GMM have even featured celebrities.}
{GMM has also done some pretty weird things, like this…}
{And this…}
If you can’t get enough of Rhett and Link during Good Mythical Morning, you can also subscribe to their second channel Good Mythical More. There, they upload the footage that goes after each episode (which does not make it into the main episode itself). Rhett and Link, and sometimes their crew as well, go into unscripted sections which usually ensue in hilarity. Check out the videos I linked, if you have the time, and go subscribe to Good Mythical Morning! Your mornings will never be the same again.
FTC: This is not a sponsored post, and all opinions are completely genuine. ♥
FOX Business argues that who you know is more important because knowledge is only valuable if you have somewhere to support you. Networking is more important than ever with the rise of social media outlets geared towards professional life. It’s also an indicator to employers that you have good people skills. The main point can be summed up as: being liked pays off.(Source)
Another article suggests the opposite. Instead of you looking for other people, people will come looking for you directly if you have something compelling. Social media such as Linkedin allow for easier connections to be made. “In this new world of abundant capital, easy access to information and people with knowledge, it’s what you know rather than who you know.” (Source)
There is a whole spectrum of differing opinions on this debate of networking vs. knowledge, but they tend to look at it in the context of a professional career. How about in the context of a high school student? What should you be focusing on right now?
The relations that I’ve built within and outside of school have been priceless. It’s hard to measure just how valuable social relations are, because it’s all the small things that they do that matter too. They act as emotional supports, as givers of wisdom or people who you can just have a good time with. On the other hand, they can also tell you about exciting opportunities, connect you with other people they know and vouch for you.
Here’s an real-life example: Nazifa Rahman was recently named AFP Calgary’s Outstanding Youth Philanthropist. What makes the following video powerful is not only her achievements, but the evidence of her positive relationships with people she’s encountered. Giang from Youth Central, Rae from the the Ability Society, and Ms. Hooper from Crescent Heights all recount their experiences with this individual.
In this sense, the relationships that you build now with your peers, your teachers and other members of the community matter a lot. I cannot emphasize enough the times I felt grateful that people were there for me and how I’ve been able to go further because of their support. In short, your current actions will leave a lasting impression on those you interact with – try to make those impressions positive.
What you know
I’m not going to evaluate the value of “what you know” solely based on school performance, but all the skills and talents that high school students also possess. Just because you get high grades does not automatically mean that you will be successful. Just because you don’t do so well in school, does not mean you’re a failure. With that out of the way, how important is what you know?
Knowledge is not simply knowing dates or solving equations. Knowledge is something that will continue to grow for the rest of your life as you face new experiences. We all learn about academics within school, but we also learn about our identity – who are we? We learn from our successes and failures, from speaking to the young and the old, and by stepping outside of our comfort zones.
Knowledge is power and you should make the most out of it. You may be talented in cinematography – make a film. You may have leadership skills – mobilize people and make a difference. You may have gone through or continue to go through tough times – let them make you stronger for the future instead dragging you down. Each person sees the same world in a different way, but each piece of knowledge will broaden your horizons and add depth to the understanding of yourself and others.
It would be a mistake to believe that you can rely solely on others in order to get far in life, you need to have your own ambitions too. On the flip side, it also limits you if you focus solely on what you know, but have no regard for your relationships.
Imagine success as a giant puzzleboard and knowledge as the puzzle pieces.
Puzzle pieces have sides that attach to other pieces, and spaces for other people to fit into. This represents how you have gaps in your knowledge that others can fill. Your knowledge is equally important because other people will have a need for it.
Looking at it this way, I can conclude that who you know and what you know are closely interrelated and that you won’t get far just by focusing on one aspect. On their own, there’ll be lots of pieces laying around. You need connect both in order to see the bigger picture.
For years people have argued what intelligence truly means, and Jessi Cruickshank, the host of CBC’s new game show Canada’s Smartest Person, is out to prove that intelligence is more than IQ tests and exam results. This game show will pit 32 of Canada’s smartest people against each other for a variety of challenges. “The challenges we’re making these people do are kind of out of control,” says Cruickshank. The contests will have to do a variety of things, from an electronic dance challenge, to convincing a pewee hockey team to get inspired to win, and to have nuclear physicists socialize with models.
A clip from the first episode.
The show has recently started on CBC TV, and so far is a great show that I would recommend checking out. While some may argue that a dance challenge isn’t a measure of intelligence, the people who succeed in this game show will be the ones who aren’t just exceptionally gifted in one category, but are well rounded in a number of categories, such as linguistic, visual, musical, logical, social, and physical intelligence. It’s almost like Wipeout, Who Wants to be a Millionaire, and American Idol combined. The competition type shows have clearly succeeded in the past, as this show will give a little something to everybody, and once is premiered, is something worth checking out. Undoubtedly, this show is an interesting way to measure smarts, and while it will be interesting, the show will hopefully also be a bundle of laughs, and based on what they have planned, it’s clear that this show will not fail to disappoint.
The chorus is a total earworm, Taylor Swift looks like a queen in every single shot, Sean O’Pry’s bone structure is quite possibly the greatest thing evolution has ever blessed us with, and Joseph Kahn has again impressed with his gorgeous visual imagery and flawless cinematography. I fell in love with the music video of “Blank Space” almost immediately after watching it.
After a few replays however, I became increasingly aware of the themes and important topics being addressed in this surprisingly insightful video.
Swift’s music video was released following backlash against her removal of songs from Spotify and an increase in pointed comments on the topic of subjects of her songs – her ex-boyfriends. As according to video director Joseph Kahn, the intention of the music video was to address the idea that, “If she has so many boys breaking up with her maybe the problem isn’t the boy, maybe the problem is her.” What else makes “Blank Space” so interesting is the parallels between its video and the ever-present influence of the media on the private and public lives of celebrities.
Sean O’Pry admiring the end result of his ill-fated portrait.
“I can make the tables turn.”
In almost all cases of public figures, media portrayal has a far larger impact on a celebrity’s public image than the objective truth, and subsequently, paparazzi and reporters more or less hold the lynchpin to a celebrity’s success. The relationship between fan and artist is unidirectional and parasocial, with the celebrity having extremely little personal input on their image to their fans, most of which they do not know and do not care about on a personal level. In this sense, celebrities are not only “read like a magazine”, but literally are what is read in a magazine.
We watch as Swift paints O’Pry in a literal image of perfection before later arming herself with a knife and a can of spray paint to distort and ruin it. “I can make the bad guys good for a weekend,” she promises, before asking rather sadistically “if the high was worth the pain”. O’Pry is poisoned by her apple and (after somehow surviving), drives away – smart boy – and is soon replaced by a new visitor.
This storyline is disturbingly similar to the relationship between the media and celebrities in the real world. An artist enters the industry and enjoys their time in the spotlight, but are all too often torn down by the very same people who built them up. Celebrities and the people who publicize their lives share a warped symbiotic relationship, where supporters and destroyers are one and the same.
In this age of modern technology and limited legal measures preventing it from occurring, media outlets, bloggers, and social media users can easily interpret information in a heavily biased light and falsify information with little to no consequence. Quotations can be made out of context, events can be reported with omissions, statements can be forced under pressure.
For instance, on the first season of Donald Trump’s “Celebrity Apprentice”, Omarasa Manigault-Stallworth was crowned “the most hated woman on television” because of the simple fact that film editing made it entirely too simple to show only one side of a contestant. Material can be selected and cropped out in order to portray a certain character, and in Manigault-Stallworth’s case, the desired character was one for the public to enjoy hating.
This ease in contorting existing truths to create false realities makes the psychological burden on celebrities extremely strenuous, as can be seen in the number of stress-linked disorders and conditions associated with fame. As the industry grows and technology improves, forays into the personal lives of celebrities become increasingly intrusive, and as a result the need to maintain a constant image grows despite the fact that such an endeavour is simply psychologically impossible.
In a well-known example of the consequences of public scrutiny, Kurt Cobain confessed that he believes he has lost his authenticity as a person, soon afterward committing suicide once it becomes apparent that drugs and alcohol have not succeeded in solving his problems. Marilyn Monroe and Robin Williams are two other examples of well-known, well-loved celebrities who have fallen as a result of this obsession to report and extort.
As seen in “scandals” surrounding Britney Spears in 2007, it is evident that the media has become less sympathetic over the years to the pressures faced by celebrities, and the precariousness of their images. A mother’s loss of her two children was reported as a “marital disaster”, and a breakdown in the wake of extreme stress was ridiculed in a series of distorted incident reports of Spears’ “craziness”. This, of course, was all accepted as reality by tens of millions of people who depended on the media to make available the truth.
Taylor Swift’s poison apple
“I’m dying to see how this one ends.”
From the earliest days of humanity, there has always been the natural lure to see others hurt, and to enjoy ourselves while we watch their downfall. We watched gladiators kill each other in the Coliseum, laughed as ballroom scandals ruined reputations, and today, we have access to a nearly unlimited supply of public humiliation at the click of a mouse or remote.
We watch as friends become enemies on Big Brother, as hearts get broken on The Bachelor, and as normal individuals turn to frightening measures to beat their opponents on Survivor. The survival of these television shows depends on their ability to keep a viewer’s attention, which means that novelty is paramount. What better novelty exists than embarrassment on national television? Surely, nothing can be more enjoyable than seeing familiar faces hurt each other while we watch safely, unobserved in the comfort of our homes.
These television shows would surely fail if we, as the kind and compassionate human beings we are, all tune out and refuse to watch such broadcasted atrocities. But the truth is, we don’t. It’s a rather gruesome reality, but this is human nature in action. On a very basic and primal level, each and every one of us has a tendency to feel joy at another’s pain.
Certainly, it’s normal to feel happy that a competitor has fallen, and there is an inherent relief when misfortune befalls another, rather than ourselves. But in this time of technological advancement and universal accessibility through the Internet, the public’s collective schadenfreude is frequently channelled towards the few who find themselves under spotlights and microscopes.
The public is capable of a degree of cruelty that would have been unheard of in previous generations, and the media loves this, because readers and viewership mean money. And so, allegations of cheating, fashion blunders, and questionable exchanges are slapped across magazine covers for all to enjoy at their leisure. If the public is feeling particularly indulgent, we might even add a poisonous comment or two on the social media pages of our favourite celebrity to hate.
The slightest blunder – like O’Pry’s unfortunately excessive attention to his (nice-looking, but still yet unidentified) cell phone – can be enough to set the wolves on a previously adored celebrity.
In fact, the success of Perez Hilton, for example, hinges entirely upon crude, uninhibited mockery of his peers. He makes money by ripping apart reputations. His ridicule of others is his marketing strategy, and his infamy is the driving force of his career. The result of his vicious words is a website with some of the most expensive ad spaces on the World Wide Web and a massive fan following.
The public often doesn’t realize that their passive support of modern schadenfreude has real, serious consequences that exist outside the safety bubble of a seat in the audience.
In 2008, American Idol contestant Paula Goodspeed committed suicide outside the home of judge Paula Abdul after her audition was derided before an audience of millions. Hers is only one of a frightening number of celebrity suicides.
Taylor Swift beckoning
“We’ll take this way too far.”
Taylor Swift isn’t stupid. She is well aware of the controversy and rumours surrounding her, as those two terms have obviously become staples in the life of any famous figure. What she has chosen to do with this music video however, is a step forward in changing our view of celebrities as zoo animals.
Her self-satiristic approach to the problems that have risen as of late is admirable. Commentary on this topic of media involvement has been long overdue, and seeing an artist as influential as Swift tackle it is very encouraging indeed. The line, “They’ll tell you I’m insane,” has in fact proven her to be one of the most clear-minded players in the current industry. Take a bow, Taylor Swift.
Let’s all remind ourselves that celebrities have feelings, vulnerabilities and rights (scandalous!) like the rest of us. Celebrities are not made-up stock characters or vessels for our frustrations. They are humans, and it’s about time that we treated them as such.
A few months ago, I partook in a communications technology course that was offered at my school. For my final project, I decided to focus on the technical specifications that are available for a laptop. During my research, I discovered how incredibly complex everything was, and realized that purchasing the perfect laptop can be a really difficult process!
Since school is hard enough without worrying about which laptop to buy, I’ve created a list of various compenents you should consider to help differentiate bewteen the myriad of devices that flood the market.
Processor:
The processor, or central processing unit (CPU), is a small chip that acts as the brain of the computer. It performs all of the operations necessary to make your computer run. The processor is also responsible for every application you use, so choosing the right processor is key when buying a laptop. For most schoolwork, web browsing and social media, I found that reliable Intel models include Atom, Celeron, and Pentium processors. However, for heavier and potentially quicker computing, the Intel i3, i5 or i7 models will be required. These processors are designed to deliver great performance and handle some serious multitasking.
Hard Drive
The hard drive (HD) acts as the long term memory of the laptop. It is used for storing digital information such as programs and files. When purchasing a laptop, take a moment to think about what type of programs will be installed and how much HD space will be needed. Will it be used for schoolwork? Will it be used for gaming and multimedia content? The amount of space that is needed on the HD depends on what will be installed and saved on the laptop. I would recommend at least 420 gigabytes (GB) for general school use, just to be on the safe side.
RAM (Random Access Memory)
Another essential part of a laptop is its short-term memory. RAM is used by the laptop to store temporary data while you are using programs. Typically, a traditional laptop will contain 2-4 GB of RAM. However, for regular computing and multitasking, I strongly suggest that you get at least 4 GB of RAM. Anything less will not be enough storage, and cause your device to run like molasses.
Size and Weight Considerations:
Finally, when it comes to picking the perfect laptop, size and weight is a major point of influence. Smaller means more portability and often a lower price, while larger usually means flexibility and often more power. Choosing the best size for your laptop is exremely important and all depends on your lifesyle. If you bring your laptop to school everyday, go with a smaller compact device that is lightweight and easily portable. If you mainly use your laptop at home, a larger device with a wider screen and keyboard may be more suitable.
These are just a few of the common “tech specs” you should keep in mind when purchasing a laptop. I hope you found this article helpful, and use it as a guide to help you find the perfect device.
What do you mainly use your laptop for? Schoolwork, gaming, internet browsing? Leave a comment below!
Women & Women First is a reoccurring skit about two quirky feminists who run a bookstore and the customers they have to deal with. (image source)
I have recently started watching the kooky and hilarious sketch-comedy show Portlandia, although it is still on the air and is being renewed shortly for it’s fifth season, you can also find all of the old episodes on Netflix. The style of a sketch-comedy is great because it means that you don’t have to watch the episodes in order and it’s easy to comprehend. The show has a few reoccurring characters that are played by either Fred Armisen or Carrie Brownstein. They face different problems each episode – my personal favourite are the feminist bookstore owners. Portlandia basically makes fun of the actors’ hometown, Portland, Oregon and all of the “eccentric” and “artsy people” you can find there. If that isn’t a great enough reason for you to watch the show, then hear this; the real life mayor of Portland often makes an appearance, playing the role of the mayor’s assistant on the show! The humour in this show is quite selective, you either love it or you don’t understand what’s going on. It’s not a show that I personally stay tuned every week to watch, but more something I will turn on Sunday morning or on a rainy day; but it is great nonetheless. Sometimes I don’t quite understand or get the appeal of certain jokes or skits but am entertained by the whole idea of the show and the amazing acting abilities Carrie and Fred have. They make each character they play different from the last and are quite talented, not to mention they both wrote the first six episodes as well. You can often spot a celebrity guest star on the show as well; the Parks and Rec starlet Aubrey Plaza often makes an appearance, as well as Saturday Night Live star Jason Sudeikis. The sketches are also heavily improvised. There’s no doubt that the duo is talented, but this show has its flaws. With its eccentric and selective humour; Portlandia isn’t for everyone, but I highly recommend you check out at least one episode on Netflix!
A teenage fast food worker was allegedly forced to wear a nametag with “Gaytard” written on it because he was gay. Tyler Brazndt, a 16-year-old working at Taco Bell, filed a complaint because of discrimination. Apparently, his boss would verbally abuse him and call him names. One day, he invited Tyler into his office, and told him that if he wanted to keep the job he had to wear the nametag. Tyler agreed, as he didn’t want to lose his job, however he felt humiliated in front of his coworkers and customers. “I would always stay behind the till so they couldn’t see the name tag, I didn’t want them to see it, but even though they couldn’t see it, he (my boss) would still come around and call me by the name across the store and customers would notice,” Tyler said. After he had enough, Tyler quit the job, and went to authorities to file a complaint.
Tyler holding up the derogatory nametag he was forced to wear.
This incident is one of many that have shown the discrimination against gay people in society. Today in schools the word “gaytard” and similar slurs are being used as common jokes, but young people don’t realize the implications of how what they say could ruin possibly their future and entire life. Many teens seem to find this as a joke, however, it’s serious, and this incident shows just how serious it can be.
Although every individual has family or parents they can be close to or form a tightly knit bond, we still need a friend to share feelings with. As individuals, we need best friends that will always be with us; someone that will be with us with no strings attached, no expectations, and just support and care for one another. According to the happiness project by Gretchen Rubin, studies show that “if you have five or more friends with whom to discuss an important matter you’re far more likely to describe yourself as ‘very happy.’” Not only does having strong relationships make it far more likely that you take joy in life, but studies show that it also lengthens life expectancy (incredibly, even more than stopping smoking), boosts immunity, and cuts the risk of depression.” Finally, like any other relationship, friendship requires some work to maintain them and to help them grow to blossom. Here are some great tips I’ve used to develop a strong friendship with my friends; I hope this helps.
Sometime, when we know someone for a while, we usually take them for granted. Now, like any individual, we all need someone in our lives to tell us “good job” or to show some sort of appreciation so we feel better. My advice to you would be to tell your friend how much you appreciate them. How you portray your appreciation doesn’t have to be a monologue; it can be anything as easy as just saying “thank you.” Other ways that I’ve exercised my gratitude include:
Returning favours when a friend goes out of the way to help me out.
Buying gifts or doing things that put them in a cheerful mood.
Building trust is a very easily developed characteristic in a strong relationship, but in your relationship you have to constantly show each other that you can be trusted and be depended on as friends. But at the same time, as your relationship grows, it is usually common for friends in the relationship to share private information with each other. If your friend tells you their secret it is because they put their trust in you. So many relationships have been ruined due to lack of trust, but other things you should do include:
Try, try, try as much as you can not to gossip about your friend because it can hurt his or her feelings and end up damaging the relationship.
No matter how small the promise is, always keep your promises. It is better to say no to something at that moment than to cancel it last minute.
There will always be times and situations that we can’t handle ourselves, as a result, we need friends. Now although it will not always be fun, sharing your problems in these situations is a point in which a friend is vital. Some things you can do to help each other through rough times include:
Show your support by complimenting them and just tell them that you are there to help if they need any.
Listen closely to what your friend has to say. The problems of your friend might be either personal or family problems, so try to portray to your friends that you are always there when they are emotional.
Take your friend out or just spend sometime with them to go watch a movie or just go for a stroll in the park to take their minds away from their distress.
Let go and don’t be afraid or proud to apologize
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When you do something wrong, don’t feel proud, just admit it. I know it’s usually human nature for us to avoid apologizing, but you should learn to apologize. At times, when a friend is upset because you somehow upset them, all you should say is “I’m sorry.” Saying sorry shows that you realize your mistake and will hopefully avoid making that mistake in the future. Also, if your friend hurts you, you should learn to let go and move on. Trust me, I’ve gone through this because if you don’t move on, it will weigh on your shoulders so heavily that you will only hurt yourself.
Make time for your friends and have fun with each other
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Lastly, what you have to do is to have fun and make some time for friends. Try to spend some time with your friends even though your schedule might be quite hectic. Show your friends that you want to be around them by chatting with them via text, calling them, or planning a weekend together to hang out. Although intuitive, we might only use friends as a source of just emotional support, but you should also find time to enjoy their company. Take time and go out with your friends to do something fun that both of you can enjoy. Making time for your friends sends the message that they are an important part of your life. And also, it’s always great to have a friend with whom you can be open with, but just lighten up and let loose.
Call them up to ask if they want to hang out during the weekend to go watch a movie, volunteer, or even play games together.
I truly hope that these tips help you maintain or even enhance your relationship with your friend or friends.
Bookmarks are great. They help remember your page when your brain forgets. Treat your books kindly by not dog-earring their page corners. Especially for library books, I think that it is important to consider the fact that many other people are sharing the same books. Keep the pages in shape, so everyone may enjoy a good story. Use a bookmark! The library offers some paper bookmarks, and the book store has lots of laminated choices, but you can always create your own. Here is a creative tutorial on how to easily make some cute bookmarks out of paperclips and buttons:
from [http://makesomethingmondays.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/group.jpg?w=640&h=348]Materials:
buttons
printed patterns on paper
mini glass tiles
diamond glaze
large paperclips
hot glue gun, glue
from [http://photo.craftgawker.com/wp-content/uploads/craft/2014/05/298528.jpg]The method is simple. All you need to do is hot glue the button to the top of the paperclip, on the side that is not used to clip the paper. You can find lots of cute buttons at the craft store or online; take a quick look into your button box, you might have some fancy vintage ones! In addition, you could make your own buttons, by using glass tiles, diamond glaze (or any glue that dries clear) and a printed pattern. Cut and glue the pattern to the glass tile, then glue the tile to the paperclip using the hot glue gun. The best part of this paperclip bookmark is that you can experiment with the button design, such as using felts and beads.
Why go out to get a facial when you can do it at home? It’s convenient and free! Obviously, it won’t feel as good as getting it from someone else, but it is still effective. Why this is important is because massage helps to get rid of toxins, soften lines, and help relax your facial tissues. You should do it for at least 10 minutes every day. Facial muscles need exercise too. They have muscle just like the rest of your body, which can be strengthened. Here are some techniques to use:
1. TAPPING
One of the simplest facial messaging skills is tapping. This simple technique will make your face feel more youthful and alive. Use the pads of your fingers, moving quickly from one area to another, tapping all over your face. This helps your skin gain energy, increase blood circulation, and achieve that natural glow.
2. UPWARDS MASSAGE
Another skill that is great is making your fingers go in an upward motion. This can be when you apply lotion, serum, or anything else. When you wash your face also go in an upwards motion. Keep your fingers together, and sweep them upwards. You should do this all over your jaw and forehead, and cheeks. Never work in a downwards motion. By doing that you can cause premature aging. You want to lift all of your facial muscles.
3. FROWN LINES
Are you one of the people who have those pesky vertical frown lines between your eyebrows? Well if you do or don’t, you would want to get rid of them/prevent them. What you want to do for this is place each one of your index fingers on the inside of your eyebrow and pull away. You will be pulling away from each other to the sides of your face. Furthermore, pinch your eyebrows because it helps get rid of tension.
4. MASSAGE THE EYE
If you are one of those school kids who are sleep deprived, this skill is a must for you. If you begin to go around your eye with your finger, you should feel a bone surrounding it. You want to start on the inside, and work your way around the eye with your middle finger. You should gently press. Also, your fingers should be just right inside of what is called the orbital bone. By doing this a couple of times, your eyes should feel much more relaxed.
5. SMILING
If you didn’t already know, smiling is a facial message. You should laugh because not only will it help your face, but it helps your whole body as well. However, you have to smile in a very exaggerated way. Almost like a caricature of just your smile. Doing this one in a gathering isn’t a good idea. Also, you want to let your jaw bone drop, and then smile very wide. You might find this silly, but it causes our jaws to get intense, which in return helps the muscles that surround the mouth relax.
6. SINUS MASSAGE
Do you ever get blocked sinuses? This skill is one that will not only help relax you, but it helps drain them, and ease discomfort. What you want to do is put your middle finger in either side if the bridge of the nose. Then you move your fingers in tiny little circles on the spot that they are placed. Next you move them down a little and repeat. This continues until you have made your way down. Next, move your fingers in strokes that are long, strong, and firm. If you do this right after you steam your face, or even in the shower, it works wonders.
7. FEATHERLIGHT STROKE
This is the best way to finish off your facial message. What you want to do in this case is stroke your fingertips very lightly all over your face. Begin at the forehead, work outwards, then go down, making sure your fingers move outwards. This is a great way to relax if you feel anxious or stressed.
There are many, many facial message skills out there. These were the most simple and easiest ones for beginners. They are lovely to help you relax. Plus it is a very simple way to make your beauty regime go from basic to top notch. Plus, you will be glowing with perfect skin just in ime for the holidays.
Cristiano Ronaldo. We’ve all heard of him, whether or not you’re a fan of soccer. He may be the best soccer player of this generation. Now the question comes, should he play for Manchester United, or continuing playing for Real Madrid? He left United for Madrid in 2009, with a transfer of €93 million being a world record for the highest paid transfer ever.
Ronaldo after scoring a goal
Since he joined Real Madrid, he has helped to win their 10th European World Cup as well as a Spanish League title. Last year, he won an award for the world’s best player. During a Real Madrid game, Manchester United fans flew a banner over the game with the words, “COME HOME RONALDO – UNITED REEL” written on it.
According to CBC sports polls, people are closely divided as to whether or not he should switch teams, a 55 to 45 per cent split, with the vote being in favour of Ronaldo staying with Real Madrid. Clearly, since his contract expires in quite a long time, he still has time to choose. He will most likely choose based on how much he will earn, how the teams are doing overall, etc. Who knows, he may not join either team and go for another team altogether. Only time will tell what one of the best soccer players in history will choose to do.
The banner that the fans displayed during the game