Bullying: an issue often overlooked in schools

A few weeks ago, my school celebrated anti-bullying day by wearing pink and handing out pink cotton candy. Although it was a good initiative to raise awareness about this important issue, how effective was it?

Studies show that Canada has the 9th highest rate of bullying in the 13-years-olds category on a scale of 35 countries and the rate of discrimination experienced among students who identify as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans-identified, Two-Spirited, Queer or Questioning (LGBTQ) is three times higher than heterosexual youth (1). Bullying often goes unnoticed at schools but leaves the victim feeling lonely and afraid. By raising awareness about bullying through pink shirt day, we can help victims of bullying feel like they are heard and help them connect with people who’ve had similar experiences.

We can also do more to raise awareness about this important issue. Children can be taught to tell someone when they feel hurt or victimized by someone else, and have their parents let the school know. If they don’t feel comfortable letting their parents know, they should tell a teacher or another trusted adult who can do something to help them. Standing up to your bully isn’t possible sometimes, so if you know of a place they usually are, try to avoid it. Roam empty hallways with a group of friends and try to stay away from your bullies whenever possible.

It is also important to realize that bullies often have self-esteem or other personal issues, which provokes them to attack others and gain satisfaction. If you begin to develop an understanding with your bully, try to ask them if there is something bothering them. Teachers may play a more important role in this because they would be able to ask the child privately if something is bothering them. Family issues, insecurities, or problems related to school may all be factors that cause a child to bully.

In conclusion, parents, teachers, and students all play an important role in diminishing the effects of bullying through reaching out for help and offering support. In addition, it is also important to recognize that bullying can happen to everyone even adults, and that victims of bullying are never alone.

Sources: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5